<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"><channel><title>善意 on Lingming 灵明</title><link>https://lingming.blog/tags/%E5%96%84%E6%84%8F/</link><description>Recent content in 善意 on Lingming 灵明</description><image><title>Lingming 灵明</title><url>https://lingming.blog/lingming-og-cmyk.png</url><link>https://lingming.blog/lingming-og-cmyk.png</link></image><generator>Hugo</generator><language>zh-CN</language><lastBuildDate>Fri, 05 Jun 2026 17:51:57 -0400</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://lingming.blog/tags/%E5%96%84%E6%84%8F/index.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title>有些话是好心，但不如不说</title><link>https://lingming.blog/posts/2026/well-meant-words-better-unsaid/</link><pubDate>Fri, 05 Jun 2026 14:00:00 +0800</pubDate><guid>https://lingming.blog/posts/2026/well-meant-words-better-unsaid/</guid><description>有些话虽然出于善意，却未必真正有帮助。本文从安慰、建议、意义解释和主体性四个角度，讨论为什么智慧有时体现为克制。</description></item></channel></rss>